10 Worst Wedding Gifts of All Time
Giving a gift that marks the beginning
of a couple’s married life together is
no insignificant task.So, what can you
offer that is personal yet practical, and
appropriate to commemorate such a
milestone life moment? Or more
importantly, what should you avoid at
all costs?
We countdown the ten worst wedding
gifts of all time, to help you avoid
these present pitfalls and bestow on
every bride and groom a gift worthy of
their special occasion.
1. Re-gifts
Everyone is guilty of a re-gift at some
point in their lives. But for a wedding? C’mon! The fact that you are never going to use the three-in-one kitchen
appliance Aunt Marge gave you last Christmas, probably means the happy couple wont either, and obvious re-gifts
such as this scream thoughtless-ness and poor taste.
2. Divorce Paraphernalia
It might’ve seemed funny at the time, but do any newlyweds really want to receive self-help manuals entitled What to
do if you’re De-partnered or Second Husband, Second Chance? Chances are they may not see the funny side –
some may even take it as a personal affront regarding their chosen spouse. When it comes to wedding gifts, leave
the comedy behind.
3. Baby Paraphernalia
Worse even than divorce paraphernalia, is receiving baby goods on your wedding day. If and when a couple will start
a family is a personal decision and undue pressure from ‘well-meaning’ family and friends can turn what should be a
positive, personal choice into a high-pressure situation. Leave the baby presents for the baby shower.
4. Pets
While we get the whole adorable factor of a scruffy
puppy or fluffy kitten as a token of matrimonial bliss, this
is another one of those decisions the newlyweds will
have to make for themselves. Keeping a pet is a big
responsibility and once the hype and stress of the
wedding is done, the happy couple may not want to have
to worry about anyone – or anything – else, so soon.
5. Eclectic Art Pieces
Unless you are completely sure that the couple in
question shares your exact taste in art and interior décor,
steer clear of any big-ticket pieces designed to take up
space in the love nest.
6. Couples’ Courses
While its natural for newlyweds to want to spend time
together and strengthen mutual interests, these need to develop naturally and organically, not be forced upon them
as a result of a two-for-one Groupon deal. Gifting couples’ courses on the wedding day can force newlyweds into
uncomfortable, unenjoyable situations they won’t thank you for.
7. Boudoir Apparatus
No matter how well you know the bride and groom, gifts for the bedroom are definitely best avoided. You know what
we mean:
• Lovable Lingerie
• Role Play Regalia
• Any Other Form of Boudoir Apparatus
Although we assume this is kind of obvious, you’d be surprised…
8. Impersonal Gift Voucher
Unless the couple has especially requested vouchers from specific outlets, avoid giving gift vouchers as this can
appear impersonal and insinuate you haven’t put much thought into the sentimentality or significance of this gift.
9. Stuff You Like
Perhaps the most selfish gift-purchasing strategy of
all, is the gift of something that speaks more to
your own personal taste and preference, than that
of the couple in question. Sure, if you’ve made their
wedding cut, you probably share similar interests
(unless you’re only there because you’re related),
but that doesn’t mean giving them an experience or
item just because you would love it, is necessarily
going to be your best bet. Especially if you’re
hoping they will return it – to you.
10. Unnecessary Kitchen Appliances
These days, most couples are living together before they tie the knot. And even if they aren’t, the majority are
equipped with the day-to-day living appliances required in a modern-day home. So, rather than purchasing a second
toaster or doubling-up on an espresso machine, consider a less-redundant and more meaningful gift that speaks to
the significance of the occasion, which the happy couple will sincerely appreciate and enjoy.
The Ideal Wedding Gift
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By: Melissa Wilkinson – Melissa is the founder of Personalized Favors. She is commonly sought for comment on all things wedding related and has worked closely with thousands of couples to create invitations, gifts and wedding favors that are truly unique.
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